Unlucky Little Lady
I am an unlucky little lady with the name of Autumn. This blog serves as a place where I can write about my life and everything in it, how I grow and overcome the things holding me back from being and becoming who I was meant to be. I am just a teenager, but I have a mind full of unspoken thoughts that will fill this blog.
Wednesday, December 27, 2017
Carefully and Painfully
December 27th, 2017
1:59 AM
1:59 AM
It's so hard to be a witness sometimes.
It's difficult to tell people about Christ and encourage them to
believe. Not because I don't want to. I mean, there are times when
God tells me to go talk to someone about Him and I'm just like,
“Really, God? Right now?” But of course I want to testify and be
an example of who a Christian is actually supposed to be, but it's
such a delicate process at times.
Believers don't have the greatest
reputation. We're made out to obsessive freaks, lunatics who jump up
and down and cry and speak gibberish to someone who doesn't even
exist (to them). And part of our reputation comes from people who
claim to be Christians and do everything a Christian shouldn't. You
know, the “Christians”. And then there are the ones who preach
and they lecture and they condemn, and they don't show the love
they're supposed to. They aren't representing God's love.
We have a terrible reputation, and for
the ones who do show love and are gentle and patient, well, we're
still grouped up with the others. We're crazy, delusional pricks
without an ounce of independence. That's why it's so hard to share
faith, because we have to be careful. If we don't, we either offend
someone or we scare them away.
So there's a process to it. Some people
take an approach like Jehovah Witnesses. Maybe it's a bit scary at
first, but it's simple and easy. You go from door to door and you
talk to people. They may slam the door in your face or laugh or maybe
even argue with you, but the few people who do listen and they start
their journey of Christianity are the ones they keep in their lives.
They continue to talk to them and teach them things, help and
encourage them, and they likely form a friendship. That sounds so
easy, and maybe I'm saying that because my method of witnessing can
be very painful.
To me this is the most effective way
and it's forming a relationship. I don't become friends with people
for the sake of converting them. I don't go “Oh! That person's an
Atheist, let's be friends with them and show them how to live their
life the right way!” No, I become friends with people and form
bonds because I love making new friends and sharing life with them.
It's because they're cool people and I care about them. Does leading
people to Christ encourage me to meet others? Absolutely.
Anyway, I form a relationship with
them. I get to know them and they get to know me, we hang out and
joke and talk, becoming better friends with them as time goes by.
Everyone I know is aware of my beliefs and they normally don't say a
lot about it nor do I say a lot about their belief – because you
have to be careful – and the closer I am with them, the more I care
about them and the more I want them to know Christ. Christianity is
not a label or an extra curricular activity, it's a lifestyle. It's
hope. It's the certainty of life after death, which is pretty
freaking cool.
And because I love people, I want them
to know all of this. I want them to know how amazing it is to have a
relationship with Jesus, because I know and I wouldn't give Him up
for anything. He's given me so much, he gave me a father when I was
just a baby. He gave me this wonderful ability and passion to write.
He made me look like my dad when we aren't even biologically related.
When I'm lonely and I'm crying and I need somebody, he tells me he's
there and he loves me. Then he puts people in my life and I
constantly think, “God, what did I do to deserve these people? What
did I do to deserve your blessings?”
Good grief, I've been through some
crap, but he was with me every step of the way. And I want that for
my friends. I want them to know that even when everybody disappoints
and hurts them, they always have God and he will never fail them. I
want them to know that inexplicable feeling of completeness. I want
them to have hope and peace. And it hurts because I can't tell them
this. I have to be careful or I'll seem pushy and judgmental and
rude, but it kills me to watch my friends not know Him. It kills me
that they're going on in life without an idea of what they're
missing, of who they're missing. I've had friends tell me how
terrible they feel. How they feel lost and hopeless and unwanted, and
though I tell them I love them and they are wanted, I want to grab
their shoulders and say, “Go to Him! Go to God. If you understood.
If you knew you would never feel lost again. You would have hope. If
you just understood!”
But I have to be careful. I have to
ease them into it. I can't be rash or force them into believing. I
have to be gentle and patient, and it hurts to see these wonderful
people unaware and apathetic. And it hurts even more when I see one
of my closest friends try to take his life because he has no joy
left. When I see those cuts and the blood and the stitches, I want to
go to him and wrap him in a hug. I want to clean his carpet so he can
rest without worrying about the stain. I want to tell him that it's
okay, that he doesn't have to be lonely. That he has someone who will
fill his heart and restore his joy.
I want to tell him all this, but he's
sleeping and I don't want to unintentionally push him away. And I
just think, what if he succeeded? What if he successfully took his
life? He doesn't know Christ. He would only have a certainty of
eternal suffering. Eternal sorrow. Eternal hopelessness. I don't want
want that for him. He's too precious, too sweet, too great. Much too
loved by Christ. He could have it all, but he's sitting in a hospital
bed with a limp arm feeling too lonely for words. It's right in front
of him, but he doesn't see it. I want to tell him, “Look! It's
right here. Your freedom is here, your joy is here, if you would just
take it. It's yours and it's free.”
But I have to be careful. I can't push.
I can't force.
I can only pray and show him just what
it means to be a follower of Christ. I can only slowly introduce it
to him as my heart breaks for him.
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Wednesday, December 6, 2017
Change
December 7th, 2017
1:28 AM
You know, things change. A lot and so easily. I look back at myself a year ago, a girl learning how to start again and become a better daughter of Christ. A little thing getting all excited because she finally did something good in her life.
Then I look back at my relationships. A year ago I was only just starting to live without someone I spent so much time with. I was learning to not get excited when I saw my best friend, because she wasn't my best friend anymore. Though it stung, I was just beginning to walk away from things I knew I didn't need in my life. And there was that one relationship, the one that I held so very close to my heart and said, "We'll never drift a part." That one relationship that made my heart skip a beat and a smile immediately bloom on my face. I look back and I realize how different things are.
Things change. A lot and so easily. Best friends you thought you couldn't live without, well, look at you. You're living without them and you feel better, like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and it's okay to move on. People you said you'd never stop being close to are suddenly. . . not so close. But it's not a bad thing either. Maybe they weren't what you needed. Maybe you were so blinded by the newness and the excitement that you failed to realize it would never work.
There are new people in your life. People you never expected to be so important. People you're so glad you gave them a chance and opened your heart to them.
You look back and you're hit with the fact that everything is different. You think about it and it hurts, it hurts and yet it makes you smile. You smile and life is perhaps just a bit better. Then you look at where you are now and you wonder how much things will continue to change. People come and go, some may stay with you. You change. You change in ways you never thought possible.
Things change. A lot and so easily. And to be perfectly honest? It's not such a bad thing.
1:28 AM
You know, things change. A lot and so easily. I look back at myself a year ago, a girl learning how to start again and become a better daughter of Christ. A little thing getting all excited because she finally did something good in her life.
Then I look back at my relationships. A year ago I was only just starting to live without someone I spent so much time with. I was learning to not get excited when I saw my best friend, because she wasn't my best friend anymore. Though it stung, I was just beginning to walk away from things I knew I didn't need in my life. And there was that one relationship, the one that I held so very close to my heart and said, "We'll never drift a part." That one relationship that made my heart skip a beat and a smile immediately bloom on my face. I look back and I realize how different things are.
Things change. A lot and so easily. Best friends you thought you couldn't live without, well, look at you. You're living without them and you feel better, like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and it's okay to move on. People you said you'd never stop being close to are suddenly. . . not so close. But it's not a bad thing either. Maybe they weren't what you needed. Maybe you were so blinded by the newness and the excitement that you failed to realize it would never work.
There are new people in your life. People you never expected to be so important. People you're so glad you gave them a chance and opened your heart to them.
You look back and you're hit with the fact that everything is different. You think about it and it hurts, it hurts and yet it makes you smile. You smile and life is perhaps just a bit better. Then you look at where you are now and you wonder how much things will continue to change. People come and go, some may stay with you. You change. You change in ways you never thought possible.
Things change. A lot and so easily. And to be perfectly honest? It's not such a bad thing.
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Thursday, November 23, 2017
Almost Empty
November 24th, 2017
12:48 AM
Sometimes I just feel wrong. Like I'm emotionally, mentally sick. I can be fine for days or weeks, but then I'll just suddenly feel all weird and uncomfortable, like I'm supposed to be doing something, but I don't know what it is and I'm running out of time. It feels like my body is getting all wound up in knots and I'll just lay in bed thinking, "How do I fix this?"
Sometimes I'll watch YouTube videos or attempt to read something, but that only makes it worse. I'm always too uninterested and a bit tired. I'll try to eat, too, but it just makes my stomach hurt worse. I started wondering if maybe it was my (mild) gastritis making my stomach hurt, but the feeling, though on my abdomen, is nowhere near my stomach and I know it has something to do with my emotions.
It feels like I'm almost empty. Like something inside of me that I need is slowly draining and I'm helpless to stop it.
It's at times like these when I really miss my counselor. I freaking sucked at talking to the lady, but she was comforting. I really liked her voice and the way she'd talk to me. I wonder if she still prays for me.
I just want this to stop and go back to normal. I hate this feeling. It's been a while since I got it. Maybe some sleep will help.
12:48 AM
Sometimes I just feel wrong. Like I'm emotionally, mentally sick. I can be fine for days or weeks, but then I'll just suddenly feel all weird and uncomfortable, like I'm supposed to be doing something, but I don't know what it is and I'm running out of time. It feels like my body is getting all wound up in knots and I'll just lay in bed thinking, "How do I fix this?"
Sometimes I'll watch YouTube videos or attempt to read something, but that only makes it worse. I'm always too uninterested and a bit tired. I'll try to eat, too, but it just makes my stomach hurt worse. I started wondering if maybe it was my (mild) gastritis making my stomach hurt, but the feeling, though on my abdomen, is nowhere near my stomach and I know it has something to do with my emotions.
It feels like I'm almost empty. Like something inside of me that I need is slowly draining and I'm helpless to stop it.
It's at times like these when I really miss my counselor. I freaking sucked at talking to the lady, but she was comforting. I really liked her voice and the way she'd talk to me. I wonder if she still prays for me.
I just want this to stop and go back to normal. I hate this feeling. It's been a while since I got it. Maybe some sleep will help.
Tuesday, November 14, 2017
Communication
September 14th, 2017
7:34 PM
I've talked a little bit about my relationship with my dad and how it's gotten a bit bumpy here and there. With many failed attempts at learning how to do this properly, I've finally learned a way to communicate with him where I can express myself properly without being interrupted. It's actually really simple. I write a letter to him. I wrote him something a while ago and finally built up the courage to show it to him. After he read it, we had a good talk and figured some things out. Though I'd normally be too embarrassed to show this to anybody, I thought that since little to no one reads this personal blog of mine, it'd be fine to share it, and maybe this will be encouraging to someone else who is having difficulties talking to a parent.
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Did you know that the Greek word for “encourage,” parakaleo,
appears 105 times in the New Testament? That’s a lot! Encouragement
is one of my spiritual
gifts, and I’m very passionate about it. Over the years,
however, I think there’s been a slight misunderstanding about what
it really is.
Somehow, encouragement has become confused with complimenting or praising others. While praise can be part of encouragement, it doesn’t cover the full meaning of the word. We often think of encouragement as saying nice things to others to make them feel good about themselves, but this is closer to the definition of a compliment. Encouraging someone can mean you’re giving them support or confidence, but is also means that you’re helping to develop something in them.
When the Bible talks about encouragement, it usually means that one is calling someone to their side in order to teach, comfort, strengthen or push them to act in a certain way. There are a few other words in the Bible that have similar meaning, such as exhort, warn or admonish, but they are mostly used in Paul’s letters. People who encourage others say with love what a person needs to hear, when they need to hear it–even if it isn’t what the person wants to hear.
Consider the book of Ephesians. When Paul founded the Ephesian church, the city of Ephesus was a major occult city. The worship of the Greek goddess Artemis was the city’s main attraction, but many other types of occult practices thrived there as well. It was a very dark place for followers of the Lord. It was extremely important that the Ephesian believers maintained unity among themselves so they wouldn’t struggle alone in their new faith. Paul encouraged them to remain unified in his letters to them.
I’ve seen lots of comments and questions from PI girls about friends who used to follow God but are now following Him less or making ungodly choices. When you confront a friend about this to urge them to get back in line with God’s will, you are encouraging them. Encouraging means telling people what they need to hear in order to bring about a change in action, feeling or belief, but when we encourage others, we should always do it with love, grace and wisdom. Sometimes encouragement is best to do in private, especially if the issue is a sensitive one. Remember: Your encouragement makes a difference!
Have you ever had to encourage someone to change a harmful behavior?
7:34 PM
I've talked a little bit about my relationship with my dad and how it's gotten a bit bumpy here and there. With many failed attempts at learning how to do this properly, I've finally learned a way to communicate with him where I can express myself properly without being interrupted. It's actually really simple. I write a letter to him. I wrote him something a while ago and finally built up the courage to show it to him. After he read it, we had a good talk and figured some things out. Though I'd normally be too embarrassed to show this to anybody, I thought that since little to no one reads this personal blog of mine, it'd be fine to share it, and maybe this will be encouraging to someone else who is having difficulties talking to a parent.
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The date is July 20th, 2017.
Two days before I go to Elizabeth's house.
The day after Brooke and Jean broke the news that they're having a
baby.
The day you told us, me and Michelle, that
you are fed up.
I'm sure you remember very clearly. You
came home to a dirty house and lazy children, as always. You very
likely held your anger back and asked us to do it before bed, and you
hoped we would. You probably doubted it though, because from the way
you talked tonight, those were words were ones you thought about
saying for a while.
You get to say what you need, what
you've been wanting to say, so now it's my turn. Allow me to explain
why I'm crying and feeling angry and hurt at 11:33 pm.
I am lazy. I am lazy and I rarely do
anything productive.
You're always saying, “I bet you
don't even remember what you did today.”
I do, actually.
Today I went to sleep at 6:05 am
because I was up all night reading What Light by Jay Asher. I will
admit that I lost track of time and when I thought to check, it was
around 4:30 am. It was late. I knew I needed sleep, but the book just
kept getting better, so I continued reading until I was too exhausted
to. So because I went to sleep at such an unreasonable time, I woke
up at 1:56 pm this afternoon. Then I spent the next two hours
finishing the book. I also ate chips and dip and popcorn as I read.
It's awful, I know.
Then I browsed Instagram for a little
while until I came across an ad for a game. It's called Don't Touch
the Black Tiles 2 (or rather, Piano Tiles). I had the first one a
long time ago and I was really good at it. It's fun, I like games
with music, so I downloaded it and as it turns out, I'm still really
good at it. I spent several hours just playing that.
Again, it's awful.
I later went into the living room to
show Michelle the game and then said, “Wait, we should do our chores
before Daddy gets home.”
She replied, “Daddy's coming home
around eight.”
So, I didn't do it. I thought I had
time to finish it and before I knew it, I heard your truck in the
driveway.
My initial reaction was “Oh, crap. Go
and look like you were doing something productive.”
My next thought was, “I can't believe
I did it again.”
I do this nearly every single day. I
browse, I scroll, I read, I lay in bed and eat, I play games, and I
read some more. I think about doing my chores, but I always end up
doing something else. I spend so much time doing such useless things,
and then I get upset when you fuss.
So I am lazy, I have little
self-discipline, I am ridiculous, I'm filthy, I don't care about
anything important, and I hate it.
I hate how I live my life. I hate how I
get ticked off and snap at Momma anytime she mentions school. I hate
how when you were fussing tonight, I wasn't intimidated or ashamed. I
was angry. Oh, I was so angry. I was saying so many awful things in
my head about you and everything you were saying. When you called me
into the living room, I thought, “Oh, dear. It's this again.”
I thought about how ridiculous you were
being and how you don't understand anything. I had my arms behind my
back for two reasons. It makes me seem submissive and I knew that's
what you were looking for. You didn't want to see any defiance
because you were fed up and upset, and quite frankly, I didn't want
to show it because I knew it would rile you up further. The second
reason was to keep my hands out of sight. They give everything away.
I mess with my finger and twiddle and pop them when I'm nervous. I
clasp them when I'm upset. I pinch myself when I'm angry. I hide my
hands because I'm trying to hide how I feel.
I was pinching myself to keep my
expression neutral.
I've heard it all before. You work all
day and we do nothing. You're tired of our behavior and you're done.
No more of this, and you set these rules and restrictions and
consequences. I knew it was all coming. I expected it. Nearly
everything you said has been said several times before. I've heard it
all, so it didn't have much of an effect on me.
At that point I'm just thinking, “Do
you have to repeat everything over and over again? Yes, I heard you.
Get to the point. M.C Beth double updated today and I was in the
middle of chapter 19. Hurry and let me get back to it.”
Now, of course I was planning on
getting everything straightened up as you asked, but nothing major
changed while you were giving your speech. That talk, the scolding,
its mark in our minds is temporary. It always is. Something would've
changed long ago otherwise.
Anyway, it wasn't until you said
something new that things changed. You said, or at least something
along these lines, “I'm done with encouraging. It's not working.”
When I heard that, I pinched myself
harder. My anger flared, but it soon morphed into hurt. You're done?
You aren't doing it anymore? But Daddy, when did you start?
I remember for about a week, you would
tell me, “I would like to encourage you to get your chores done.”
Every time you said that I would laugh
a little. That's not what I meant at all, but it warmed my heart that
you were trying. I thought that you would get better at it. You would
learn what buttons to push to get me going, but I've come to realize
that I don't know where those buttons are. I don't even know If I
have them anymore.
I am unmotivated. I don't care about
doing anything and even when I want to care, I can't bring myself to.
I don't feel like doing anything ever and absolutely nothing
motivates me.
I know I'm smart, but I have no
motivation to do school and show my intelligence. I know I am capable
and I can be hard working, but I don't ever care. It's gotten to the
point where I don't know how to do things anymore. How do I get up
and do that math I'm falling behind in? How should I go about it? How
do I get to the point where I can just go and do what I'm supposed
to?
Then I have the audacity to be
embarrassed when school and grades are brought up around my friends.
Michaela got above average on her ACT. Zack is really good at math, a
while ago he gave me a tip about something and I didn't even know the
terms he was using.
I'm embarrassed and yet I do nothing to
change it. I often ask myself why I'm like this. Why can't I find it
in me to just do it?
It has also bled into the things I
enjoy. I started writing An Expectant Whirlwind months ago and I'm
just now beginning chapter five. I wait until the very last minute to
write my part of the Ladyblog. I haven't studied for my psychology
test, you know, the thing I specifically asked Momma to get for me.
It's been a couple months since I've written for my personal blog.
It's not just procrastination, it goes a step further. I've already
said it a couple of times, but I think this calls for bold letters.
I am unmotivated.
And I don't know
what to do about it. It kills me everyday. Sometimes I think I'm
broken.
So after coming to
this conclusion, I asked myself, “What am I trying to get Daddy to
do then?”
You're right, it's
not working. It's not working because nothing works on me. I think
what it was is I was hoping that you changing how you disciplined me
would change me. I wanted it to work, but I continued to lay around
and do nothing. I just read all day with no regard, and then I
worried and stressed about the things I was supposed to do while not
doing them.
I also think that
some part of me knew it wouldn't work and I just wanted someone to
pin the blame on. And boy did I blame you. I was bitter and I'd
grumble about it in my fantasies. I had somehow convinced myself that
it wasn't my fault.
Though I wasn't
lying when I said that the way you reinforce things hurt me. Cause it
does. It hurts a lot.
So while I was
still angry after you left, I do what I always do while blaming you,
I Google things for you. I type in questions in the search bar as if
I were you looking for answers. This time around my first one was
“What does encourage mean” The suggestions added “in the bible”
so I clicked on that.
After all, what
better way to convince you to do something than to have the bible
back it up?
Yes, I'm horrible.
After looking
through some articles, I found one that really spoke to me. I was
originally looking for an expanded definition of encourage to prove a
point to you or something, but this one made me think that maybe I
don't know what it means.
This is what it
said (yes, the whole thing):
Somehow, encouragement has become confused with complimenting or praising others. While praise can be part of encouragement, it doesn’t cover the full meaning of the word. We often think of encouragement as saying nice things to others to make them feel good about themselves, but this is closer to the definition of a compliment. Encouraging someone can mean you’re giving them support or confidence, but is also means that you’re helping to develop something in them.
When the Bible talks about encouragement, it usually means that one is calling someone to their side in order to teach, comfort, strengthen or push them to act in a certain way. There are a few other words in the Bible that have similar meaning, such as exhort, warn or admonish, but they are mostly used in Paul’s letters. People who encourage others say with love what a person needs to hear, when they need to hear it–even if it isn’t what the person wants to hear.
Consider the book of Ephesians. When Paul founded the Ephesian church, the city of Ephesus was a major occult city. The worship of the Greek goddess Artemis was the city’s main attraction, but many other types of occult practices thrived there as well. It was a very dark place for followers of the Lord. It was extremely important that the Ephesian believers maintained unity among themselves so they wouldn’t struggle alone in their new faith. Paul encouraged them to remain unified in his letters to them.
Therefore, I the prisoner of
the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with
which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with
patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent
to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians
4:1-3, NASB).
The New American Standard Bible translates the word “parakaleo”
as “implore.” When Paul says he “implores them to walk in
a manner worthy,” he’s actually saying that he encourages
them to walk that way. The Ephesian believers were allowing disunity
to creep into their fellowship of believers, and Paul is telling them
what they need to hear in order to change their behavior.I’ve seen lots of comments and questions from PI girls about friends who used to follow God but are now following Him less or making ungodly choices. When you confront a friend about this to urge them to get back in line with God’s will, you are encouraging them. Encouraging means telling people what they need to hear in order to bring about a change in action, feeling or belief, but when we encourage others, we should always do it with love, grace and wisdom. Sometimes encouragement is best to do in private, especially if the issue is a sensitive one. Remember: Your encouragement makes a difference!
Have you ever had to encourage someone to change a harmful behavior?
Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
- Project Inspired
I knew this, but I was so caught on the idea of encouragement, thinking that it must be the solution to my problem, that I distorted it into being the things I wanted to hear. And I think, though I may be wrong, you also knew this and distorted with your desire to make me start obeying you.
My favorite part of this is “When the Bible talks about encouragement, it usually means that one is calling someone to their side in order to teach, comfort, strengthen or push them to act in a certain way.”
So I was right. Encouragement is what I need, but we both need to fully understand it. It's not telling someone what they want to hear, but showing them what they need. I feel like so many people forget about the teaching part.
I started reading
this article in a very bitter state of mind, but it mellowed out as I
read.
So I've gotten
passed my anger and mostly passed my hurt. And I'm sorry. I haven't
been honest with you. Our relationship is not doing okay at all
because of how angry I've been. I was angry at you and angry at
myself. I was angry that you stopped trying to encourage me and it
really hurt me tonight when you confirmed it, but please, don't give
up. Let's not give up on this. There is a solution, but we haven't
come to it yet.
I am an awful
daughter, but please don't give up on me. I think we're
misunderstanding things. I think we don't know each other nearly as
well as we should.
So let's
communicate and help each other.
The date is
November 3rd, 2017.
The day before my
first competition. The day you talked to your co-worker about them giving
me a ride.
The day you yelled
at Michelle about the dishes and then apologized with chocolate.
I read this again
and cried because every word still applies.
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After my dad read it, we talked about how we failed at talking to each other and how we could get better, we talked about what it meant to encourage not just me but both of us, we talked about love languages, we talked about how to better express ourselves, and many things I talked about in the letter. One thing he mentioned was how much it hurt him when I talked bad about myself. He told that I'm not filthy, that I'm wonderful and beautiful and he loves me.
I think I worried over nothing about showing him the letter, because the truth is, this helped things between us. There was nothing to be afraid of. He loves me and he wants to know when something is bothering me.
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Monday, November 13, 2017
Set Fire
Written September 4th, 2017
Word count: 581
Fandom: Miraculous Ladybug
By: Unlucky Little Lady (Little Autumn) on Blogger/Lady Idazle on Miraculous Amino
After living a life in ice, a life of
cold glares and hollow walls, Adrien set his world on fire. He
watched the ice turn to water and evaporate around him and he smiled.
It was over and he was glad to boil everything down to the truth. And
it hurt. It burned his skin and melted his bones, but he was glad to
finally know what was real and what wasn't.
Nino wasn't real. His words meant
nothing in end. Adrien let the chaos take over his mind and his
friend, his supposed best friend, ran away when things got too
heated. He didn't want to be caught in the midst of the fire, so he
left. Alya was fiery and fierce, but it was too much for her. She
wanted warmth, but Adrien scorched her. She couldn't take it either,
so she made her exit with Nino.
That was really the end of it. With
those two gone, everyone deemed him too much to bear. So one at a
time, then all at once, they left him. It hurt, but nothing was going
to turn him cold again. He wouldn't allow that, so with every loss
and every tear, he let the fire grow until no one wanted to be
anywhere near.
That was fine, he told himself. If they
so wished, they could distance themselves all they wanted, but they
would still feel the warmth of what he had become. He would burn a
brilliant light and no one would be able to ignore him. They could
hate him and shield their eyes, but he was done with being pushed
around.
His father was the first to feel the
fire. The strings he used to control him were snapping and when he
went to tie them back, Adrien released his rage and turned Gabriel to
ash. He was done. He wasn't a push over, he wasn't to be taken for
granted, he wasn't that timid and shy child anymore.
Plagg tried to talk sense into him,
but Adrien wasn't hearing it. No one was going to tell him what to do
anymore. So he burned him, too. If it's what it took to find the ones
willing to stay, to find what was permanent in his life, he would
burn everything to the ground.
Everything. Sizzling and crackling and
breaking down to nothing. That was the truth of the matter. No one
wanted him. Nothing would stay forever, and he was fine with that. He
would be alone and have nothing to quell his flames. So be it. It was
fine. Everything was fine. . .
“It's fine.”
“Don't lie to me.” she replied,
holding him tight.
“If I don't lie.” he said, “I'll
go down, too.”
“But if you keep lying, it'll only be
worse in the end.”
“Then promise me something.” he
pulled back and held her cheeks. So sweet and rosy.
“Anything.”
“When that time comes,” his thumb
gently caressed her cheek, “Run as far away from me as possible.”
Her eyes broke, “I can't do that,
Chat. Adrien. You know I can't.”
“My Lady.” he begged and kissed her
nose, “Princess, please.
“No,” she buried her face in his
chest, “I will never leave you.”
He set fire to the world around him,
but he'd never let a flame touch her. Everything could burn to a
crisp and die at his hands. Everything but her.
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